Last weekend my family and friends surprised Mum and Dad with a party to celebrate their 25th year of marriage. As we all gathered in the Sharpe’s living room to embarrass them with old photos and stories I had a sudden moment of realisation. What my parents have achieved is truly amazing
Surrounded by so many people who’s lives are better because of them, my parents seemed embarrassed, bashful, but full of love. Lasting 25 years is an achievement in itself these days, but more impressive is the way they’ve lived and loved through those decades.
I know that I owe my parents an unplayable debt. They’ve seeded so many values in me more through the ways they’ve opened their home, their commitment to people and laughter that permeates their household.
As I read through the comment book passed around the party, I was actually moved to tears by the grateful messages and the impact of small actions.
The older I get the more aware I am of how difficult marriage can be. I’ve seen many friends grapple with the challenges as well as the joys of committing to each other for life. Faithfulness, consistency and commitment are really unsexy words in this day and age, but they’re displayed in something really beautiful between Mum and Dad.